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thedailywhat:

Say What Now of the Day: In today’s edition of Santorum Santorum Says: Rape victims who get pregnant “have to make the best out of a bad situation.” 

(Also: “I believe and I think the right approach is to accept this horribly created — in the sense of rape — but nevertheless a gift in a very broken way, the gift of human life, and accept what God has given to you.”)

[think.]

How is this asshole still in the running to becoming a presidential candidate? I hope he does become the candidate so I can watch him being ripped to fucking shreds every day on national television.

And by his logic, it’s “God” that rapes people, in order to give them a gift.  WHAT A GREAT AND LOVING GOD YOU HAVE, SANTORUM. You are such a piece of shit.

(Source: thedailywhat)

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kateordie:

Sometimes I have the time and patience to get from an idea to a fully fleshed-out, penciled, inked and coloured comic.

Sometimes I don’t.

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There is a country where the leading cause of death of pregnant women is murder by a partner. In this same country, more than a million women were raped in 2008 and women are much more likely to live in poverty than men. Local laws don’t protect their right to bodily freedom and integrity; some rape laws even state that once a woman initially consents to sex, she doesn’t have the right to change her mind.

You may have caught on by now — yes, I’m talking about the United States.

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Jessica Valenti, in “Equality begins at home: U.S. lags pathetically behind other nations in some basic rights for women.” (via azelie)

Also: “For all of our rhetoric about respecting mothers and parenthood, the United States is the only industrialized nation without paid maternity leave, putting families and children at severe economic risk. Some families pay as much as half their income toward child care costs.”


(via foulmouthedliberty)

*pregnant people.

(via prolongedeyecontact)

(Source: thedailyfeed, via fuckyeahsexeducation)

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There is a country where the leading cause of death of pregnant women is murder by a partner. In this same country, more than a million women were raped in 2008 and women are much more likely to live in poverty than men. Local laws don’t protect their right to bodily freedom and integrity; some rape laws even state that once a woman initially consents to sex, she doesn’t have the right to change her mind.

You may have caught on by now — yes, I’m talking about the United States.

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Jessica Valenti, in “Equality begins at home: U.S. lags pathetically behind other nations in some basic rights for women.” (via azelie)

Also: “For all of our rhetoric about respecting mothers and parenthood, the United States is the only industrialized nation without paid maternity leave, putting families and children at severe economic risk. Some families pay as much as half their income toward child care costs.”


(via foulmouthedliberty)

*pregnant people.

(via prolongedeyecontact)

(Source: thedailyfeed, via fuckyeahsexeducation)

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One lousy non-serious tweet with the word ‘rape’ in it and suddenly James Deen is a ‘rape apologist’

Just…fuck the internet. People should be able to respond to stuff any way they want. And it wasn’t even, like, bad, or whatever. He was joking about porn, not even a real-life situation.

This is such a non-issue. Rape isn’t funny, but porn ‘rape’ isn’t real, so he wasn’t talking about rape.

Get mad at me if you want, internet, but you have to realize the context people are speaking in.

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I’ve gotten more notes on my whole James Deen tweet post than I expected, with only a couple negative reblogs.

One just talks about how joking about rape is never acceptable, which is true. But, in reality, joking about your profession is a thing everyone can do. So what to do if part of your job is to act like you’re raping people? It’s a grey area.

And one reblog response started out saying how I obviously have never been sexually assaulted or something.

Ha. Ahahahaa…

But she deleted it so I can’t read the whole thing. Maybe she actually read my blog?

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emilie-rainbow:

A good example of a rape joke that’s funny, in my opinion. Because the victim isn’t the butt of the joke, the ridiculous idea that our society makes it dangerous just to have a vagina is the butt of the joke.

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No always means no. But yes doesn’t always mean yes.

andythanfiction:

If you say yes because:

  • There’s no point in saying no
  • They won’t listen to no
  • They haven’t listened to no in the past
  • You’re afraid of what they will say or do if you say no
  • You’re afraid of what someone else will say or do if you say no
  • You don’t believe you have the right to say no
  • You don’t think you matter enough to say no
  • You don’t think a person “like you” gets to say no
  • You think that you “owe” them a yes
  • You or they think that because you’ve done something else to hurt them, you have to say yes to this
  • You or they think that because they’ve been nice to you, they “deserve” a yes
  • You think they’ll no longer love you if you say no
  • You think they’ll hate/hurt themselves if you say no
  • You think they’ll hurt someone else if you say no
  • You said yes before and don’t think you can revoke it
  • You have said yes to other people and think that means now you have to say yes to whoever wants you
  • You are being threatened
  • You believe it is your duty to say yes
  • You are being offered a reward if you say yes
  • You have been told you “have to” do a particular act to be a “real” ______
  • You think it’s “too late” to say no
  • You didn’t understand what they wanted to
  • Any reason at all other than you actually want to engage in that specific act at that specific time with that specific person with full knowledge of what it is, freedom to say no without fear of consequence, and the full belief in your own agency to make your own decisions about your body

It’s not a real yes.  It’s not real consent.  And what happened to you was still a real violation and your feelings about that are also very, very real and very okay. 

ETA: To the partners - you are responsible for getting a yes.  If you get a yes, you’re responsible for having not in any way coerced it, including through any of the methods listed here, and for being reasonably certain that your partner was in a sound frame of mind and body as well as old enough and of a reasonably similar-enough power situation to offer that consent.  If you do not obtain uncoerced consent from your capable-of-consenting partner, you have committed sexual assault/rape.  That simple. 

If you obtain consent with reasonable belief that they could give it and without coercion but one of these other issues exists in your partner’s head (such as the belief that they can’t say no because they said yes to someone else, etc) and you didn’t know that, their trauma is still genuine, their consent is still invalid, their pain is still genuine, but you are innocent of having committed a wrong.  The two are not mutually exclusive, and if you devalue or deny their pain because you didn’t know about their situation, you are still a douche.

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erikamoen:

Top Tweet: “In addition to pregnancy from rape, other acts that are a gift from god and should not be treated: broken bones, burst appendix, cancer” -October 24 

Bottom Tweet: “If you’re going to be in accordance with God’s plan for you, cease receiving any medical aid IMMEDIATELY” -October 24

Context: Senate candidate Richard Mourdock is the most recent Republican to publicly share his beliefs that rape and any pregnancy produced by it are God’s will.

“I struggled with it myself for a long time but I came to realize, life is a gift from god and even if life begins in the horrible situation of rape it is something god intended to happen.”

Just like how if a man has his bones broken in an assault, he shouldn’t have a doctor fix him up because it was God’s will that his arms be broken! Or if he gets cancer— GOD’S WILL, DO NOT SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION.