whatsherchase
“I also knew exactly when to insert a small body between the fist and her face, a skill no child should ever have to learn… but there was nowhere to go for help. Worse, there were those who condoned the abuse. I heard police or ambulancemen, standing in our house, say, ‘She must have provoked him,’ or, ‘Mrs Stewart, it takes two to make a fight.’ They had no idea. The truth is my mother did nothing to deserve the violence she endured. She did not provoke my father, and even if she had, violence is an unacceptable way of dealing with conflict. Violence is a choice a man makes and he alone is responsible for it.”
—Patrick Stewart, The Legacy of Domestic Violence (via cocknbull)
July 2012
205 posts
June 2012
45 posts
when I finally have sex
- some guy: now I know you're a virgin so you probably don't know much about -
- me: no I read fanfiction I got this
Note to middle-classers sticking up for the rich: the rich are laughing at you.
I'm going to try using the queue (finally) so if I spam I'm sorry but I want to clear out my likes.
So I finally watched Korra and now I'm full of happy and sad.
I, K, S, V :)
I: 5 turn ons
1. Intelligence/good sense of humor—I don’t think you can have one without the other.
2. Pretty eyes/lips
3. Cute boys kissing. I blame the internet.
4. Being flirty/touchy in public places hoping you don’t get caught. Who doesn’t love that?
5. A guy in a fitted black suit, white dress shirt, thin black tie. Every guy should own an awesome suit.
K: What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told?
I’m okay/everythings fine/emofeefeesyaddayaddayadda…
S: Do looks matter to you?
For myself—I’m currently trying to change my wardrobe from only jeans and tees to actually reflecting my personal style. I like to look nice for me, it make me feels nice. So looks do matter, to a point.
For others—No matter how hard I try to be nonjudgemental, it’s pretty impossible not to judge people somewhat based on their appearance. Especially as a woman, I’ve been taught all my life this judgement may keep me safe. Aside from that, looking nice/being attractive does help in my initial reaction to someone, but even if you’re [insert incredibly hot person here] I won’t like you if you’re a jerk. So looks do matter in the first few minutes or so of me meeting someone, but after that it’s alllllll personality.
But if you smell bad you’re not helping yourself much.
V: How far have you gone?
If we’re talking about distance, I’ve been from Iowa to Toronto, Canada.
If we’re talking sex, I’mma put it in baseball terms and say I’ve just gotten to third base. And I won’t go farther unless I know you for more than one drunken night. Those who have tried have not succeeded (and who says you can’t get much done at third?).
Nothing against one night stands, I just need to trust someone a bit more than that time frame allows. I’m a bit of a romantic that way =P
If this is the same Anon from the last ask, YOU DID MUCH BETTER THANK YOU.
I planned on making this funnier but I just got tired for no reason after starting it. Just imagine almost everything being said in a snarky tone and that should take care of it, ha.
I feel there's a point in my day where I'm basically spamming my feed when I should just suck it up and learn how to use the queue feature.
